Sexuality and Righteousness
THE HOLINESS OF SEX
JESUS CREATED A WOMAN’S BREASTS
JESUS CREATED ALL OF A MAN’S AND A WOMEN’S SEXUAL PARTS
Marriage IS honorable and the bed UNDEFILED
THEME: WOMEN HAVE NOT BEEN TAUGHT BY THE OLDER WOMEN HOW TO LOVE
THEIR MEN.
THEY HAVE BEEN TAUGHT HOW TO CASTRATE THEM!
WHAT is CASTRATION?
IT IS WHEN A MAN IS NOT MADE TO FEEL THAT HIS WIFE HAS MORE
SEXUAL LOVE FOR HIM THAN A PROSTITUTE WOULD FOR A HIGH
PAYING CUSTOMER.
For the Woman of God SPIRITUAL enough to take the TRUTH into her marriage, the truth of NURTURING the man God gave her, she WILL find that the water she gives will open up something inside that man that will literally embrace her very soul.
IF YOU GIVE FOR THE SAKE OF GIVING AND NOT FOR THE SAKE OF THE EMBRACE!
IT IS CALLED LOVING AT THE BOTTOM LINE.
COMMON Objections:
“I don’t want to be his love slave.”
“All he wants is sex.”
“Why should I? He doesn’t do anything for me.”
“That will just open me up for rejection.”
“He forgets about me after the ‘holy’ act of intercourse.”
“It doesn’t make him love me.”
For the Woman of God SPIRITUAL enough to take the TRUTH into her marriage, the truth of NURTURING the man God gave her, she WILL find that the water she gives will open up something inside that man that will literally embrace her very soul.
JESUS SAID
You MUST LOVE GOD with ALL, WITH all
Your Heart
Your Mind
Your Soul Your Strength
Your Very Being
To LOVE ALL OF HIM WITH ALL OF YOU
Your Heart
Your Mind
Your Soul
Your Strength
Your Very Being
What the older women have failed to teach the younger women, is to LOVE all of the man God gave them.
They are FAILING to teach the younger generation of women to LOVE their husbands, concerning the aspect of his sexuality.
This can be likened to worshipping God with your mouth but not your heart!
And, it goes deeper than a physical act which has biologically defined responses and parameters which are being stirred up.
It gets into the CORE OF THE SOUL concerning
what
a Man BELIEVES ABOUT the women God gave him.
Remember, I am not writing this treatsie for unspiritual women. If you feel yourself saying in your heart, my husband is this or that, he’s the one you need to talk to….I am not writing to you, for you are lost in a sea of selfishness, and you can’t see past your nose to comprehend spiritual truth.
But to those Sisters in the New Jerusalem
WHO HAVE TAKEN TO HEART THE PROVERB
EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY, EVERY
WISE WOMEN BUILDETH HER HOUSE
BUILDETH HER HOUSE
BUILDETH HER HOUSE
BUILDETH HER HOUSE
BUT, a FOOL, Jesus said will not build on a ROCK, but rather on SAND.
To those who bear witness, by Him with Whom we have to do, read on‑‑‑ to those of you not interested in what has been shared, stop reading, you certainly won’t like what is to come.
WHAT THE OLDER WOMEN FORGOT TO TEACH
MAKE your husband FEEL like he IS delicious to you
BE delicious to your husband.
ALLOW YOUR BREASTS TO SATISFY HIM AT ALL TIMES
LET HIM FEEL THAT HIS PENIS IS ONE OF YOUR PRIZED “POSESSIONS”
DESIRE YOUR HUSBAND’S PENIS TO BE INSIDE YOU
AND COMMUNICATE THAT DESIRE TO HIM
THANK THE LORD JESUS FOR GIVING YOU THE TALENTS TO MINISTER TO YOUR
HUSBAND’S NEEDS
THANK HIM FOR GIVING YOU THE WISDOM TO NOT BURY THOSE TALENTS
NO WHORE HAS THE CAPACITY TO GIVE A MAN BOTH HER HEART, BODY, SOUL AND SPIRIT. THEY MAY BE ABLE TO GIVE HEART SOUL AND BODY, BUT THE SPIRIT OF GOD WILL NOT HONOR THE GIVING OF THEIR SPIRIT, THEREFORE THEY ARE LIMITED BY THEIR LACK OF HAVING THE HOLINESS OF JESUS INSIDE THEM‑‑‑AND IT IS THAT VERY HOLINESS OF JESUS YOU CAN GIVE YOUR HUSBAND‑‑THAT IS THE BOTTOM LINE.
You that are spiritual, fast and pray, to accomplish this goal‑‑‑for the end result is not a shortsighted vision of a man wondering what has got into his wife, but the END result to those Wise Women who BUILD their house, is a man who will be STRONG IN THE LORD.
I don’t have time to argue with those women who choose to be contentious‑‑and I’m sure there will be some.
I don’t have time to rebuke the older women who have failed to pass on such a Holy Truth to a younger generation.
But, I do have time, to say GOD SPEED, to all of you precious sisters who have caught the vision of intergrating all of you into loving your husband.
ALL OF YOU
To LOVE ALL OF HIM WITH ALL OF YOU
Your Heart
Your Mind
Your Soul
Your Strength
Your Very Being
YOUR BODY
May the giving of yourself sexually to your husband
be an Act of Worship To God Nothing less‑Nothing more!
Selah!
PART II
WHERE THE RUBBER HITS THE ROAD
GETTING DOWN TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER
We have only scratched the surface, to this point, touching on some spiritual implications of human sexuality in the context of marriage and holiness; but now, we must begin in earnest to understand an even deeper aspect of what the older women as a whole, have failed to teach the younger women about love.
Deeper than breast massages, deeper than a women loving her husband’s penis‑‑sorry if your squeamish‑‑but your husband is a real person, and not some polite society column, to gossip about in a church vestibule.
WHAT does ALL of PART I push us towards. I mean what is it really all about, and cut the lies and sweet hypocricies of souless bible teachings that reduce everything down to some formula that a woman dutifully follows out in order to be little Miss Holiness.
And for those women who are having trouble with this treatsie as of yet, focusing on the man‑‑rest easy‑‑I plan on asking a friend of mine to address that issue, and add it to this. But this is not a matter of who is right or who is wrong‑‑it is a seeking to UNDERSTAND
WHAT IS
WHAT IS THE DEEPEST ROOT OF SEX A WOMEN SHOULD UNDERSTAND. A street whore understands it, sometimes‑‑but she is unable to give it fully‑‑for by definition she can’t communicate the holiness of Jesus Christ in her sexual giving. But, even a whore, may understand what a man really wants and needs.
The sex that our Lord intends for a woman to give to a man, is a sex that
BELIEVES IN THAT MAN.
When your sexuality is reduced to dutifully fulfilling the biological needs God CREATED inside of man‑‑‑and you reduce sex to physical gratification of your mate‑‑you show yourself ignorant of the deeper underlying need.
FAITH
HOPE
LOVE
You should give sexually with a core belief in your husband. The exhortation to sexually make your husband feel as if you enjoy having sex with him‑‑is pinpointing that which should nourish your husband with your faith in him.
VERY FEW WOMAN KNOW THE FRUIT OF THAT TRUTH
COUNTLESS MILLIONS KNOW THE AGONY, of loving their husband, as if they were a whore. They blame their husband for a lack of sensitivity, not realizine, they have the attitude of a whore in their very own soul.
You love him, but you don’t LOVE him. That makes you a divided person, and reduces you down to behaving as if you were a whore. Now your husband has the love of a whore, to back him up‑‑not the love of a woman of God.
And to all you pious preachers that would knock down the truth of this‑‑one question‑‑or two! What kind of women loves you? And what kind of women do you teach the women in your church to be? Do you TEACH them to love their husbands, or do you sweep it all under the rug, hoping for the best.
To those women still with me‑‑The Lord bless you, for such a discerning heart.
Hide in your heart the understanding of LOVING your husband by communicating belief in your husband via your sexual love. You do that, and you won’t regret it. If you don’t do it‑‑20 years down the line, you’ll still be going to bed with a stranger. What a waste.
The sex that our Lord intends for a woman to give to a man, is a sex that
BELIEVES IN THAT MAN.
PART III
DESIRE
AND
MORE DESIRE
DIGGING INTO SCRIPTURE, READING THE SONG OF SOLOMON, MEDITATING ON THE PORTRAYALS OF THE BRIDE OF CHRIST AS ILLUSTRATED BY MARRIAGE: We can come to some indications of the necessity of Desire.
Song of Solomon
My beloved put in his hand by the hole of the door, and my bowels were moved for him. [Bowels indicates ‘seat of emotions’]
Here the bride’s emotions are MOVED towards her husband. There is a strong desire.
Come my beloved, let us go forth into the field; let us lodge in the villages. Let us get up early to the vineyards; let us see if the vine flourish, whether the tender grape appear, and the pomengranates bud forth: THERE WILL I GIVE THEE MY LOVE(S).
The mandrakes give a smell, and at our gates are all manner of pleasant fruits, new and old, which I have laid up for thee, O my beloved.
Make haste, my beloved, and be thou like to a roe or to a young hart upon the mountains of spices.
MORE VERSES FOLLOW
Awake, O north wind; and come, thou south; blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may FLOW OUT. Let my beloved COME INTO HIS GARDEN,
and EAT His Pleasant fruits.
Two facets of desire are brought out here:
1. She desires her beloved.
2. She desires to be desired by her beloved.
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
One final capsule of DESIRE
Remember, any whore can go sleep sexually with a man, but
only a woman of God, can DESIRE her husband with EVERYTHING
the Lord made a woman capable of giving to a man.
By night on my bed I sought him whom my soul loveth: I sought him, but I found him not. I will rise now, and go about the city in the streets, and in the broad ways I will seek him whom my soul loveth: I sought him, but I found him not…..
It was but a little that I passed from them, but I FOUND him
WHOM
MY SOUL LOVETH:
I HELD HIM
AND WOULD NOT LET HIM GO
UNTIL I HAD BROUGHT HIM
INTO MY MOTHER’S HOUSE
AND INTO THE
CHAMBER
OF HER THAT CONCEIVED ME.
I sought him whom MY SOUL LOVETH shows the Godly blending of sexual and emotional desires into ONE PERFECT LOVE, of a woman of God towards her husband.
IV
Treatsie of the Heart
One point of love, is to be a Whole Person, and in order to be a Whole Person one must Love with a Whole Love. The Reward of Loving with a Whole Love is seeing other people made Whole. One “medecine” your husband needs is a Whole Love. As Much of a Whole Love as you can give your husband‑‑to that degree you act as a Healer under the annointing of God. It is the annointing that breaks the yoke.
To the degree you hold back from seeking a whole love, for various justifications in your heart‑‑to that degree your husband does not receive a whole love, and is more likely to have a difficult time overcoming his weaknesses.
When you understand that you are ONE — when you really see that, you will begin to understand that inasmuch as you have done it to the least of these you have done it unto me.
If you say you Love God whom you don’t see, and yet fail to love your husband whom you can see ‑‑ HOW can you say that you love God? How?
Don’t you Understand?
Did you really feel JUSTIFIED in your heart when you HELD back your SOUL from being totally involved in your lovemaking‑‑because you saw his weaknesses and ineptitudes‑‑and so you, withheld your soul, and gave him, the LOVE OF A WHORE. Did you think that He who Ponders the Hearts of man did not see your selfish petty pouting hatred? And you continued to stab a knife into your man’s heart by giving him half the love that God gave you to give him, telling your man that he wasn’t worth your love, your esteem.
HAVE YOU FORGOTTEN? DID YOU FAIL TO REMEMBER……..
JESUS CHRIST
And do you remember when He shed his blood, hanging from a cross, Because He chose to Call YOU worthy‑‑‑you who had nothing‑‑you who were naked‑‑you who were blind‑‑you who were in utter spiritual poverty‑‑
DID YOU FAIL TO REMEMBER FROM WHENCE YOU HAD COME, DID YOU FAIL TO REMEMBER ALL THE SUFFERING HE WENT THROUGH FOR YOU…
LOST IN THE PETTY SELFISHNESS OF YOUR OWN LIFE
Resolve in your heart, burn a committment in your soul‑‑that no matter what else may fail‑‑that no matter what weaknesses your man has
YOU WILL GIVE HIM YOUR SOUL
WHAT GOOD DOES IT DO HIM, IF YOU GIVE WITH HALF YOUR HEART?
So, say a prayre before you give of yourself to your husband. Seek God before you nurture him who is your beloved. Give out of your soul‑‑and be real enough to touch his soul‑‑as he opens to you‑‑and gives you the embrace locked inside by a Holy God, HIDDEN inside his heart, until one came along with a key‑‑and you will find noble lady‑‑what is yours.
And you will understand what it is to be loved. And perhaps, you will know a little more, about the One who gave Himself for us, that we might know His love.
And yes, I know, in part that the husband is to love the wife as Christ loved the church‑‑and to be the leader in growing in an intimacy that says they were both NAKED and unashamed. A nakedness of body AND soul…
The point of this treatsie is not pointed at the FACT that a husband should lead.
That is not the argument presented. This offering of the depth and height and length and breadth of the Love of Christ is written to those women who KNOW in their hearts that the HOLY SPIRIT has been calling them to a deeper understanding of who they are in Christ‑‑ it is food‑‑ for those women who are hungry to eat what meat is set before you by HIM.
It is the meat, that the older women are to feed the younger women with. It should not be my responsibility as a man to serve you the food that you need. The fact that I am, is testimony to the Lack in the body of Christ, a lack of understanding amongst the “Mother’s of Isreal” of what responsibility they have to nurture the younger women with. Sex has become a four letter word instead of a HOLY GHOST word. Satan’s perversions have been accepted, and couched with all sorts of justifications, rather than a receiving of the Gifts that Jesus Christ died and bled for that man and woman would be redeemed from the curse of the law and FIND that which THEY WERE CREATED TO HAVE!
THE INTIMACY OF THE GODHEAD IS TO BE IN MARRIAGE‑‑AND SEX IS A HOLY GHOST LOVE WORD THAT THE FATHER PUT DOWN INSIDE YOUR SOUL TO EXPRESS HIMSELF DOWN TO THE CORE OF YOUR VERY BEING THAT YOU MIGHT BE CONFORMED TO THE IMAGE OF HIS DEAR SON IN THE EMOTIONS OF YOUR SOUL AND SPIRIT‑‑AND YOU WOULD BE ONE WITH him AND WITH Him.
When you begin to seek the treasures of Jesus Christ in the sexual life that a Loving Father created for you from the foundations of the earth itself‑‑when you begin to do that‑‑and put all that selfish hype behind you‑‑you will be so blessed‑‑so graciously blessed.
Did you ever smell the sweet smell of the skin of a new born baby. Such a sweet smell to the baby skin. It is one of the physical fruits of the physical ramifications of sex. Should the spiritual ramifications be any less?
No whore can love like you can. No star of the silver screen. Nobody can love like you can. There is something so beautiful inside of you. Nobody else has it. The treasure that is you‑‑let it blossom‑‑let the songbirds make their nest in your heart.
I know numbers of you have suffered at your husband’s hands‑‑but Be Still‑‑a song of love is heard‑‑and it whispers honeysuckle clover caress the waves of the dawn of a glorious Sun breaking upon a new day‑‑and you remember the pureness of your virginity‑‑‑and a renewal is taking place‑‑as you are giving birth to a new virginity of the soul and spirit.
The Virginity of the Lion of the tribe of Judah is like a hammer inside you, crushing the stoney heart, that the virginity of the Lamb of God, may burst forth and grant you unction to love your man, with the heart and soul of the Lamb of God.
There, it has been said…….
That you would love your man
With the Heart and Soul